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Emotional
Pollution
Introduction
I have used the emotional pollution
a few times on this site. It looks like the first time
was in my journal writing from March 11 of last year.
Then I used the term a few days later. Here is what I
found on the net today when I searched for the term. Here
are the top three results
1. Article from
India which says that someone said emotional pollution
has spoiled nature. But it doesn't say much about the
idea of emotional pollution. Almost nothing really.
2. This poem to President Clinton
3. Copy of article from buzzle.com - (originally from the
Guardian)
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That's it for now.
S. Hein
March 8, 2006
Early writing about emotional
pollution
- March 11, 2005
Here is some of what I wrote on
that day:
Too bad there is not a litmus
test for emotional poison. Too bad there is not some
kind of a breathalyzer. Something that could just
measure the emotional toxicity of a culture, or a
home or a classroom. Now there is an interesting
idea. A powerful idea.
They had these things in Texas,
you hook them up to the exhaust pipe on your car. And
it tells you how much pollution your engine is
creating. If it is too much, you didin't pass
inspection. Why don't we have that for classrooms and
homes? If we did, most homes and classrooms would
fail the test.
Later I wrote about how I didn't
think David Caruso would be able to design a good
emotional pollution test because he would think something
is healthy, normal and good when it isn't. And this is
the danger of any test of this sort.
Later that day I wrote this...
The world needs that test I was
talking about. It is more important than an EI test.
An EI test only measures one person. But an emotional
pollution test, let's call it, would measure the
damage being done to millions of people. Hundreds of
millions.
If only someone could go to the
USA...Travel around and take readings. Say, "In
Florida the average level of emotional pollution is
x. In New York it is y." Then they could go to
Canada and take measurements. This is an incredibly
powerful idea. But I will probably never live to see
it realized. Still, maybe someone will read this and
think "He is right. It is a very powerful
idea."
What is more dangerous really?
Air pollution or emotional pollution? Toxic gases or
toxic emotions? And toxic communication?
If the USA wants to look for
weapons of mass destruction, they might start looking
at the toxic emotions being spread in the American
schools, and on the American TV shows and in the
American movies.
Copy of a
blog from http://albaal.blogspot.com/2006/01/emotional-pollution.html
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Emotional Pollution
This is my letter to a certain
President of a certain country...you know who you are.
Happy New Year. Try avoiding blowing us all up in the air
this year, I am sure there are other ways to entertain
yourself, how about go-cart?
Emotional
Pollution
Where is the war but in
your own hearts?
And who are those targets that you fill with
darts?
One man's errors do not represent a nation's,
And spreading hate for revenge is no
justification.
A man's dark side is no darker than the darkest
in you,
Misplaced hate will only bring out his hate anew.
Set an example for generations to come,
Hate breeds hate, even more in some.
We are only liable for the things that we do,
Just like I'm not liable for the wrong in you.
Explain to the child that has no knowledge of
hate,
That because of one man she will meet with her
fate.
An eye for an eye, and a life for a life?
Where's the logic in vengeance for strife?
The world has a way of giving back your
contribution,
Once and for all stop the emotional pollution.
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Article
from buzzle.com
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Copy of http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/12-4-2005-83101.asp
Originally from http://www.guardian.co.uk/Columnists/Column/0,,1657879,00.html
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By Madeleine Bunting
Having done so much damage to the self-image of Slough in
The Office, the BBC had to make amends. So they made a
series about trying to make Slough happy. Tomorrow, in
the final episode, we get to hear if they succeeded. It
has been a cheerful but loopy series that left happiness
to be defined by a collection of endearing
"experts" indulging their own idiosyncrasies,
from dancing in woodland to launching a choir. They
didn't achieve their aim (although it didn't stop them
from claiming they had) but along the way, they made a
fair bid at introducing a mainstream audience to a
fascinating emerging territory of public debate.
The funny thing was that, while the series may not have
been gripping TV, it ended up making you feel, well,
rather happy. It's heart-warming to see a woman who has
always hated her voice singing lustily on stage, and to
see the 50 volunteers for the project making new
friendships and enjoying themselves. It generated the
kind of feelgood factor you get from the school summer
fete: not a thrill, but a gentle glow.
The hunt for happiness is an ancient human preoccupation,
so there is nothing new in all this, but it is being
reframed in order to challenge our prevailing political
assumptions. The argument starts from the fact that
Britain may have got very much richer in the past 40
years but it has not got happier. In fact, by measures
such as depression, crime, obesity and alcoholism, we
have got very much unhappier. So isn't the preoccupation
with rising GDP misplaced? Shouldn't politics be focused
around more than just economic growth? Shouldn't politics
be as concerned with measures of human happiness?
Second, research has established more clearly than ever
what the most likely predictors of happiness are, and
there are now proven methods to treat unhappiness -
particularly cognitive behavioural therapy which aims to
break cycles of negative thinking. Happiness is no longer
an elusive fuzzy feeling; a body of data gives us the
tools to analyse what it is and what causes it. Happiness
has gone respectable, and it's been tagged to
intellectual disciplines - the science of happiness,
happiness economics - so it will be taken more seriously.
But neuroscientists and psychologists apart, there is an
even more pressing reason to take happiness seriously and
this is what is grabbing the attention of Whitehall -
unhappiness is an expensive business. Most striking is
the huge chunk of claimants who are on incapacity benefit
because of mental health problems: a whopping 900,000 or
38% of the 2 million total. Mental ill-health is the
biggest single cause of incapacity and costs the country
an estimated £9bn in lost productivity and benefits. The
weight on the NHS is enormous: GPs spend a third of their
time on mental health and the prescription cost of drugs
is rising.
Plus, there is a whole range of political issues which
have roots in mental ill-health, from obesity and
alcoholism, to parenting, the respect agenda and
antisocial behaviour among children and young people. The
combination of incapacity-benefit reform and this
"behaviour" politics is giving unprecedented
impetus to mental health, the long-time Cinderella of the
NHS.
The most dramatic development of the "therapy
state" will come with the announcement, expected
later this week, of a big increase in the availability of
cognitive behavioural therapy on the NHS. But there has
been a rash of smaller initiatives as government
departments grapple with how to integrate this new
dimension into policy. The Department for Education and
Skills launched new guidelines earlier this year on the
social and emotional aspects of learning (Seal). The
Department for Environment, Food and Rural Affairs is now
proposing to introduce indices of welfare and life
satisfaction and how they relate to sustainability.
Most of it is piecemeal and still relatively small-scale,
but the old liberal concept that the emotional life of
citizens is no business of the state is crumbling. It
raises the prospect of a future politics where emotional
wellbeing could be as important a remit of state public
health policy as our physical wellbeing. In 10 years'
time, alongside "five fruit and veg a day", our
kids could be chanting comparable mantras for daily
emotional wellbeing: do some exercise, do someone a good
turn, count your blessings, laugh, savour beauty.
We might also be discussing how to regulate emotional
pollution in much the way we now discuss environmental
pollution. Top of the list would be advertising, which is
bad for our emotional health. It induces dissatisfaction
with its invidious comparisons with an affluent elite.
Television is not much better for us with its
disproportionate volume of violence and fraught
relationships. It makes people unhappy, less creative and
cuts them off from emotionally healthy activities such as
sport or seeing friends. Meanwhile, there would be a
strong rationale to increase subsidies for festivals,
parks, theatres, community groups, amateur dramatics,
choirs, sports clubs and lots of other lovely things.
To some, these kinds of interventions represent a
nightmare scenario of a nanny state, an unacceptable
interference in personal freedom. If people want to
pursue their own unhappiness, then the state has no right
to stop them. Critics conjure up the nightmare prospect
of Brave New World and its soma-imbibing placid citizens.
But the problem is, as Richard Layard argues in his book
Happiness: Lessons From a New Science, that the decline
of both religious belief (which is a strong predictor of
happiness) and the social solidarity movements of the
20th century has left a vacuum of understanding about
what constitutes a good life and how to be happy.
The church has lost sway, and the state has retreated
behind the single rationale of promoting economic
competitiveness with its overtones of Darwinian selection
(a major source of unhappiness in itself with its vision
of life as a competitive struggle). That leaves the
market a free rein to describe happiness - the new car,
new sofa, new holiday - and to manipulate our
insecurities around status.
Leave things as they are and the state will increasingly
have to pick up the bill for how consumer capitalism
effectively produces emotional ill-health - depression,
stress, anxiety. Leave things as they are and the state
is part of the problem, promoting a set of market values
that produce emotional pollution. Take education for
example, where the needs of the labour market have been
the driving influence for more than a generation. Has the
regime of testing, league tables and competitiveness had
a cost in emotional health? Layard cites an international
study of schoolchildren in which the 11-15 age group were
asked whether they agreed that "most students in my
class are kind and helpful". England came last of
eight developed countries, below Russia.
The huge ambition of the small but growing happiness
lobby is that the state resumes a role in promoting the
good life, not just to chivvy us along in the global rat
race, anxious and insecure.
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